" Relationship is not tht easy "

Lemme just start updating ma blog with brand new and a lil bit sensible issue which is nothing but “relationship”. Yeah Relationship.. it doesn’t mean only the relationship between lovers and couples. It is related to every pair or group of people who are intact with some relation. And this relationship is something which expects love explicitly and many more things like respect, prestige implicitly.. this seems to be controversial, but it’s the truth in many cases..

Relationship is not as easy as we think. Every time one is not a problem but two is always a problem and this relationship deals with two people in most of the cases,it may be friends, siblings, neighbors, family.. The reason for a bad relationship may be ego, adamancy, prestige and many other petty petty issues. And SORRY seems to be a bad word in relationship; I don’t know how people afford to lose a person because of their ego. I am damn sure a true friend worth more than a self prestige. Expectation is the other element which plays a pivotal role in relationship, but I don’t want to argue whether it’s good to expect things because every one of us knows that Expectation leads to disappointment. So it’s always better to take things as it comes. Well other problem is coming outta shell when there is a problem between friends and I think it’s not a bad deal to open up any issue with a friend rather than losing him n regretting later.. If someone’s ego, self prestige, adamancy gonna eat off a good relationship, it’s always better to chuck it outta the sweet relationship.

Looking at all this, relationship seems to be complicated rite? Well yeah it is.. But it all depends on how we take things n proceed with our relationship. And this relationship is just like a mirror, to keep it safe or to break is in our hands.. and why am I talking about all this now? May be for someone? May be to cherish all ma good relationships? May be to get back someone? Who knows :P :P

Few things...

Hey again posting a blog after a very long time. The gap is because of my project and exams. Everything is done once for all now. I was thinking to what to write this time and thought of penning about environment and its cleanliness.

We all know that government is trying so much for very long period to convert Chennai to singara Chennai. But we people keep blaming that government is not doing any thing regarding the cleanliness of the city and the same time we people litter or do messy things and spoil the steps taken by the government. I think people should be bit conscious about their surrounding and stop littering in the public places. Some of the common things which we all do will definitely sum up to a better result. So I think its every one’s duty to contribute their part in order to change our city to a singara Chennai. Some common things which we people can do are

1. Stop throwing the chocolate covers or any waste papers on the road

2. Use Dust bin to throw any kind of domestic waste

3. If we do not see any bin in our proximity, there is no wrong in having the waste till we find one

4. Stop spitting in the common place which most of the old people do

5. Can pass these message to all our friends so that we can reach our destiny soon

These basic things can help our government to achieve its aim of turning CHENNAI as CLEAN and GREEN city. Hope this blog acts as an eye opener and people start doing the needful for our city.

LETS START BEHAVING AS HUMAN BEING FIRST!!

The incident which I witnessed very recently made me to post this blog which is all about “transgender and their community”. Last Friday when I was returning back home from project place in train, I saw two transgender coming to all compartments in demand of money for some function in their temple. Some offered them money and some denied. When they came near my seat, a couple offered them some money reluctantly which they accepted it with gratitude and left the place. After they went, the female told her husband that thank god, u gave something and sent them or else yuck, those people would have touched me. The conversation continued with a fellow sitting opposite to them. I was just viewing all this and started thinking about this issue.

I don’t know why this sort of treatment is given to such people and treat them as untouchable. In north side those people are considered as Lord Aarthanareeshwarar and treated as holy people. But we people in south side are not even treating them as normal human being. Here I definitely don’t know whom should we blame, whether the people or those community people? Because this transgender are men behaving like women because of their sexual chromosomal lack. So this should be seen in a biological perspective and they should be treated as female in every way. We need not help them by means of money but we can just show them the minimum courtesy and that will be surely of great help to them. Even every transgender should stop thinking bad about their birth and grow up their confidence to achieve in their life. They can opt for any work other than sex and begging so that they can start shining like other gender people. Only because of the act of begging and teasing of very few transgender is intimidating common people, which ultimately lead to a very bad opinion about the whole community. This can be avoided when they start living a respectful life which should be taken care by the government or transgender who are in well off position. Now a days few people of that community started grooming up well and represent their community in every field. Many a people have stepped into every field and started excelling in it.

This issue may be controversial, but as a human being we should be in a position to understand others feeling and stop teasing such people. Hope this post atleast make few not to think them as clutter but as third gender people.

PS: this is just my opinion and no offence on any one.

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY

hey ppl

I wish everybody a happy Valentine's day. This day is not only meant for lovers but also for people who thinks love exist in all kinda relationships. So this is the day where we can show our love, affection and gratitude to our parents, friends, siblings and to every single person in this universe.
~~~~~ HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY~~~~~

~~~MUSIC~~~

Recenlty I heard a song called aathichudi of Vijay Anthony’s own composition (not sure though lolz) where he had made a rap with avaiyar’s aathichudi. In recent times many composers have tried their hand at composing music for some tamil literature works. Even maestro Ilayaraja was successful in doing thiruvasagam which was a massive hit amidst music lovers. This kind of work will really make people to get occluded with the literary work. Wish one had done some masala composition for mylapore man's thirukural so that I would have scored 10 on 10 in thirukural section in my language paper: D. Any ways this brings us to the conclusion that how music creates impact to these verses and brings soul to the lyrics. I am damn sure that these kinda albums will reach the mass and bang commercially too. I have uploaded this song for u guys, enjoy hearing it!!!

ACTION SPEAKS MORE THAN WORDS RITE????

Yesterday I went to the Mylapore fest, which usually takes place in January month of every year which includes competition, music, and dance where Mylapore residents have a galla time. Even though I am not a part of it, just went to witness it for very first time. Had a glance of all competitions going on and the petty shops in the road side. Then we decided to step into the very famous kabaleeshwarar temple, where I was shocked to see a board saying that “Non Hindus are not allowed inside” near the karbagraha (the place where we worship the god - mulavar). Even I remember seeing the same kind of board in world wonder nominee madurai meenakshi amman temple. I do not know what made people to put such a preposterous board in the temple, where many foreigners come as tourist to relish and awe at the cultural and traditional value of our country. I am damn sure that this kinda atrocious statement would definitely create a bad impact on our culture. Every religion’s principle portrays the same message that, every religion is the same and God is one. Only thing is we people see and worship god in our own ways. Preaching the students that all Indians are brothers and sisters and doing something like this which is totally contrary will not serve the purpose of doing it at all. Definitely these kinda stupid things will really aggravate the violence and fight amidst people. So I think government should take necessary actions to take off such boards which convey such atrocious statement. The very same thing was boggling me when I was doing pradharshanam and saw a couple from foreign country with a guide, who explains them the history and importance of the temple to them while going out of the temple. There I had shocking news waiting for me. Yeah my slipper was missing where I left it and was searching it for a couple of minutes and came to a conclusion “yethana periyar vandhalum evangala thirutha mudiyadhu” in a vivek style.

Bollywood vs Kollywood

Last week I saw SRK’s recent hit rab ne bana di jodi, I was surprised to see five beautiful actresses (preity zinta, kajol, lara dutta, rani mukerjee and bipasha basu) in a guest appearance for a song. Now a days guest appearance of many stars has become a usual element of SRK movies. Even in Om shanti om he was successful in bringing bunch of 51 top actors for a song, but notable point is only SRK can make it. Even in a spoof award scene of a movie, he managed to bring both B’s, hrithik roshan and few more stars, (I can’t even imagine vijay, ajit, simbu or dhanush would accept and do this kinda scenes). Even though these guest appearances are of few min, still it shows the bond and affinity amidst bollywood stars.

Thinking, why am I talking these things all of a sudden?? Hmm yeah I just wanna know why these kinda appearances are not taking place in any of our kollywood movies?? Either here people are not broad minded or very egoistic? Do not know which is right..

Heard that director P.Vasu tried doing a song like OSO in his movie kuselan starring Rajini kanth and nayanthara, but the fact is he could not do so. Here people are not interested for cameo appearances. Dono why people turn their deaf ears towards such offers, may be they would feel this kinda role may not be favorable for their future. But in bollywood kareena kapoor has again signed for an upcoming SRK’s movie for an item number. Even though she is in leading position, she never turns off those offers. But here even heroine with two flop movies in hand will be hesitant to come for an item song or some tiny role. Even in older days, only few veteran directors like K.B, Maniratnam were successful in doing movies with cluster of top actors, notably even now mani’s script demand for such stuff and he succeeds bringing people together in his movies. Kudos to them!!!

These actors as performers should be in position to play any kinda roles given to them. I personally think, giving best movies as a performer in a tiny role is far far better than flop movies as a lead actor. If these big stars club and give movies, it would seriously be a visual treat for people.

NO SOLUTION TO KEEP UP RESOLUTIONS...

Ya apt topic in this new year. Resolution is the word which ponders me a lot on every jan 1st, but frankly speaking this resolution will not even work for more than two days. But this time my resolution is to blog frequently this year. Only after reading the blogs of various busy people, I made up my mind to start bloging again. Ya when cine people who blog amidst their busy schedule, why can’t I do that in my vetti time? So at least this time I should keep up my resolution. Here I wanna share some of my funniest resolution in my school days, which I won even, follow for two days at a stretch. They are

1. Should wake up at 5’o clock everyday was my resolution in 6th std, but I dint even follow that for two days.

2. Should not tell any lies to my mother was my resolution in 8th std, but I could'n even keep up for a day.

3. Thought of writing diary everyday, but I dint do that more than a week, because I did not find any stuff to write there. So even this resolution was a very big flop show.

Here all I want to say is taking resolution was not my cup of tea which always ended up in a flop show and made me to take a resolution which is nothing but “stop making resolution and be yourself”.

FEW QUESTIONS REMAINS UNANSWERED

The question which bothering me for a long time is “Why Indians never see cinema as cinema??” Only here we can see people doing propaganda of their favorite star’s movie by doing all possible things like conducting a procession with the reels, doing all poojas to their cut outs and so on. Why all this?? Is any actor demanding it straight forwardly? But I know they wont hesitate to get all these things, because after all these are their weapons to stay in the field.

Recently I saw a program about actors and their fan clubs in one of the tamil channels, in that I saw one fellow telling that he can even give his life for his star. What is this? Why the hell he should give his life to someone else who is unknown to him? All these things keep confusing me.

Why don’t we see actors as a human being who is just doing his job?? Why do we give hype to all those people??

We should see them as actors who are doing their job. If you like someone’s acting or the film; just see their movie twice or thrice in the theatre. It will be our greatest tribute to them. Apart from that why should we commence a fan club and waste our precious time and money?? These actors are someone like IT professional who just do their job and get salary. Nothing more than that.

I know many will have a different opinion from mine. But still its just my own views about this actor’s fan club and the activities done on the first day of big shot’s release.