Friday, December 18, 2009

" Relationship is not tht easy "


Lemme just start updating ma blog with brand new and a lil bit sensible issue which is nothing but “relationship”. Yeah Relationship.. it doesn’t mean only the relationship between lovers and couples. It is related to every pair or group of people who are intact with some relation. And this relationship is something which expects love explicitly and many more things like respect, prestige implicitly.. this seems to be controversial, but it’s the truth in many cases..

Relationship is not as easy as we think. Every time one is not a problem but two is always a problem and this relationship deals with two people in most of the cases,it may be friends, siblings, neighbors, family.. The reason for a bad relationship may be ego, adamancy, prestige and many other petty petty issues. And SORRY seems to be a bad word in relationship; I don’t know how people afford to lose a person because of their ego. I am damn sure a true friend worth more than a self prestige. Expectation is the other element which plays a pivotal role in relationship, but I don’t want to argue whether it’s good to expect things because every one of us knows that Expectation leads to disappointment. So it’s always better to take things as it comes. Well other problem is coming outta shell when there is a problem between friends and I think it’s not a bad deal to open up any issue with a friend rather than losing him n regretting later.. If someone’s ego, self prestige, adamancy gonna eat off a good relationship, it’s always better to chuck it outta the sweet relationship.

Looking at all this, relationship seems to be complicated rite? Well yeah it is.. But it all depends on how we take things n proceed with our relationship. And this relationship is just like a mirror, to keep it safe or to break is in our hands.. and why am I talking about all this now? May be for someone? May be to cherish all ma good relationships? May be to get back someone? Who knows :P :P